That's what they say, but I'm not so sure. Some things don't get washed away so easily. Hurt feelings, betrayal, disrespect, grudges, are all stains that take a lot of spot remover, to get out the blemish lingering in your mind, and in your heart. I recently had a situation that caused a rift between… Continue reading It’ll all come out in the wash!
How do you say goodbye to someone you love, when you thought you had more time? I haven't written a post in more than a week, because I didn't know where to begin. My heart just hasn't been in it. My daughter's family has said an unexpected goodbye to her husband's mother. When my family… Continue reading The Unexpected Goodbye
The tenth point of the Scout Law is "A Scout is Brave", and truer words have not been spoken, especially lately. In today's culture, it's controversial to be a member of the Boy Scouts of America. In the past five years we have made progress in our goals to be fair, and inclusive, but yet… Continue reading A Scout is Brave
Life will pass you by, if you wait until you lose the weight, or get that Botox you've been saving for, before you take those family portraits! Have the family portraits done, buy the swimsuit, go to the beach, and eat the cake! Your kids don't care how you look while you're sitting on the… Continue reading Wait…let me lose some weight before you take my picture!
I'm getting to that age, that makes me reflect on my life, and ponder the meaning of all this. I've been somewhat fortunate, in that I've been able to fulfill a few things on my bucket list, but I still have a lot to do! I definitely want to travel more! I made my first… Continue reading Never have I ever…
It's ok to take time to show yourself some love - not in a narcissistic way, with a mirror in your hand at all times! Give yourself permission to do little things for yourself, once in a while. If you're not healthy and happy, how can you give joy to others? So many times I… Continue reading Take time to love yourself
Finding Peace can be a challenge for some people. Negative Nancys are all around us, and they can sure bring you down, if you let them! I refuse to let them! Think positive, and you'll live a positive life. I'm not saying nothing bad will ever happen to you - bad things happen to good… Continue reading Find Your Peace, and Everything Will Fall Into Place
So many times we tell our kids "yes" too often, and are faced with a rebellion when we finally say "no". These families that spend every day after school, taking their kids to several different lessons, or games, or practice, makes me wonder whose idea it was to sign them up for all of these… Continue reading The power of “NO”.
Family comes in different shades and various degrees of loyalty. You have black - those are the ones that you know don't like you, and won't ever be there if you need help, but they'll be there to watch you fall flat on your face! In most cases these are the family members that don't… Continue reading Fifty Shades of Family
I feel like I should put out a tip jar...in my own house! I figured it up - I have spent a minimum of 12,775 hours, in my adult life, picking up after people, and those said people have maybe spent 2 hours tops, picking up after me! Don't get me wrong - I don't… Continue reading Hello, my name is Deborah, and I will NOT be your waitress..